Wednesday, December 30, 2015

The Way of Love

" 'Give & Take'- We are leading loveless lives precisely because we have lost the capacity to love, inmost cases. In the rest of the cases we are afraid to love. Love is a Commitment." - Chariji

It is astonishing that ninety percent of the people i come across, adults,children,everybody have problems with the parents or parents with the children. Of course, problems between couples is almost total.why?Again because we are not able to love totally.We are not able to give our heart.we only give a part of ourselves.
         A rich man gets companions by the dozen. Suddenly one night,he loses his money and next morning he is penniless.Everybody is gone, he is deserted,where was this love? Was it in his purse? But that is all you wil get if what you are  using is only your wealth, or your beauty or your strength ,or your ability.They are all physical limitations.
       A child brings something with love, the parent rejects it.The child feels rejected. It carries the memory of that rejection throughout its life to the grave. That bond is broken , the parental-filial bond. What does it take to remake it?
        A moment of intimacy. Go to your father and sit with him and say " Dad  I'm sorry" and he's waiting ,you know. His eyes are flooded with tears,you're both in tears.You hug each other and the moment is  made, your future life is made.
                                       Excerpts from love and death
 by Parthasarthti Rajagopalachari

6 comments:

  1. Master had always spoken about love being the expression of divinity. The quotes from His talks such as above teaches such a simple thing to give more than you take!!
    Amen Rev. Master!

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  2. Master had always spoken about love being the expression of divinity. The quotes from His talks such as above teaches such a simple thing to give more than you take!!
    Amen Rev. Master!

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  3. Most widely used four letter word is what makes us human. Chariji had said once that when loves makes us put other happiness before ours.

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  4. This write up reminds me that, Love may be identified as of lower or higher order. A simple test is if the object of love is dear to you because of your requirement or because of object itself. All Knowledge is ancient, words to this effect was sated In the Brihadaranyaka Upanishad where there is an enlightening dialogue between Rishi Yājñavalkya and his wife Maitreyi, in which profound truths are discussed. There the rishi tells his wife 'Not for the sake of husband, is the husband dear, but for one’s own sake he is dear; not for the sake of wife, is the wife dear, but for one’s own sake she is dear.

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  5. Very touching. Indeed one moment can make or break a situation or relationship. Love is the key.

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  6. LOVE is everything for any kind of problems, one who undergoes this process will be benefitted in both material as well as spiritual life. To my experience and understanding, LOVE is the only main tool to make a person fly higher and higher. We have to be ever grateful to the Spiritual Guide OR Masters of SRCM, who are continuously filling their INFINITE LOVE in spiritual practitioners to make our life so meaningful.����

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